"People are often unreasonable, irrational and self centered; forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies; succeed anyway. If you are honest and sincere, people may deceive you; be honest and sincere. What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight; create anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous; be happy anyway. The good you do today, will often be forgotten; do good anyway. Give the best you have and it may never be enough; give your best anyway. In the final analysis, it is between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway." - Mother Theresa

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

A Bit Of Humanity

Friendship. 

I don't think any one person can live without a friend. And if they do, then that's what I would call a cold world. You have hi and bye friends. You have hey lets have lunch friends. And then you have friends that have keys to your house or use your car on the regular and you know that's ok because you've reached that level of trust. I have a friend that has become a regular in my life and Tamara and Henele's life. I know I can tell her anything and get an honest judgement back that I know I won't feel bad. 

I tend to catch expressions. Facial expressions that speak way louder then words. I don't like to be taken advantage of. But recently I feel that I am. From rolling eyes to "smerks." You know the ones I'm talking about. 

Taking a step back and thinking about it all. I know that the only true people I can trust is my blood. As much as I would love to help as many people as I can through life struggles. When i talk to people, they talk and I listen. But it gets overwhelming for me. Cause I feel what they feel when they share. 

I HAVE to be mindful of what I say and how I say it because of how trusting people are telling me things. I also have to be careful of what I share. Because in the end, when they end up turning their back on me, I would have handed them all their bullets through the things I willingly shared. 

My brain will resort to a little bubble. An indestructable bubble. One that only few can make their way in. 

lol I get so lost in my own analogies that I don't make sense sometimes. That's what happens when your brain runs at warp speed and your fat fingers can't type worth crap. haha 

T&H
Be friends. Choose wisely who you share the deep things with. Make sure you build strong bonds with your TRUE friends and always be mindful of what you share to cover your bases. Don't feel inferior of saying what you FEEL and what you KNOW is right. And always smile. Remember, when it comes to friends, your SMILE is the key. =) 

xoxo Via

Monday, August 11, 2014

Just Lovely

Sometimes life is like bulls in a chinese shop. A crack here, a chip there. WE ALL HAVE CRACKS AND CHIPS IN LIFE. And as much as you try and avoid the fact, they will always be there until you decide to seal it. And sometimes avoided cracks slowly grow so big it becomes unavoidable. You have to fix it. But what sucks in these instances is that some of the things that grow big and become unavoidable become permanent because of lack of care or we've resorted to just plain giving up. 

We become damaged. 

Everyone deserves love. True love. Yes, this has already been established forever ago. And what I think, is that the damage that we slowly create throughout our lives can only be fixed through your true love. 

Life is short. 

You do not get unlimited chances to have the things we want. This I know. Nothing is worse than missing an opportunity that could've changed your life. So make your move now. Sometimes when you think you have that opportunity and you think it will always be there, might not be and when you realize it's lost, you look back. 

I think part of the reason why we hold on to something so tight is because we fear something so great won't happen twice. But if you don't know FOR SURE that it's that great, should we hold on?

I'm in love with himm. But I've been waiting in the storm long enough, I may need to adjust my sails. I don't know what I'm waiting for. I just hate not knowing. It's like I've been walking in super thick fog. I can't see where I'm going. I can only see the next step and for some of us, the next step is enough. And if I'm being honest with myself, I need more then just the next step. 

This time, I'm gonna forget about my happily ever after. It'll make it's debut when it's right. 

ALWAYS BELIEVE THAT SOMETHING WONDERFUL IS ABOUT TO HAPPEN. 

xoxo Via